I have this silly habit of collecting beautiful pre-wedding and couple’s pictures.

I’ve been collecting these pictures for years now, amazingly, I don’t see the actual people there, whenever I look at these beautiful pictures, I imagine my wife and myself, and it helps me to paint the picture of my future.

I’ve trained my mind to think positively.

Sometimes, I would deliberately sit down and start speaking prophetic words into the life of my wife and kids.

I would speak about what I want to see in my marriage, occasionally this has been my practice.

I don’t watch what I don’t want in my life.

I stay away from things that will corrupt my perspective about marriage.

I’m deliberate about the kind of movies I watch, most people don’t know how our minds work.

What you behold continually you become.

What you focus on you magnify.

Your mind doesn’t know the difference between entertainment and reality, and that’s why when you watch certain movies, although you know it’s just a movie, you find yourself crying or emotionally moved by different feelings.

I learned something about the mind, it’s the interpretation you give to it that it accepts and works with.

We must train our minds to think correctly.

Some of the perspectives ladies have about men were gotten from movies, some ladies find it hard to trust men because of the countless movies they’ve watched, whether you like it or not, your emotions are invested.

When you follow a celebrity whom you love so much, when their marriage is affected, it affects you too.

Understand that there’s a connection between your eyes and your mind, what you see has the power to determine what you think, and we all know that we’re a product of our thoughts, as a man thinks in his subconscious mind, so is he.

It’s possible you don’t know what I’m doing to your mindset now, but the more you see my posts, the more your faith is built up, you don’t even have to read the content, as you’re seeing these pictures, they’re registering somewhere in your heart, it’s building a blissful desire in your heart gradually.

I don’t know your perspective about marriage, I don’t know your experience with love in time past, but whatever it is, I’m here to tell you that love is a beautiful thing.

Be mindful of the things you watch, you can’t be watching and reading divorce news and not be affected in your thought pattern.

Learn how to deliberately feed your mind with the good news about marriage.

Kill that thought that if things don’t work well in your marriage you’ll get a divorce, some of you have already built strategies to use when your marriages start having issues, you won’t survive in a marriage like that.

Although it’s good to prepare for the worst, don’t stop there, expect the best.

Your expectations determine the kind of manifestations you’ll have in your life, if you’re expecting a divorce, it will come.

If you aim at nothing, you’ll never miss.

Understand that we attract negatives more than positives. You need to make extra efforts to attract the positives.

Things may freely fall, but things don’t freely rise. We need to know these things.

So, my counsel to you is to be mindful of the things you feed your mind with, it has the capacity to affect your results in life.

Marriage is a beautiful thing irrespective of your experience, just believe it.

All Rights Reserved©️ Cantona Group Ltd