Marrying a man of vision does not guarantee a beautiful marriage. Vision ALONE does not make a marriage thrive.

There is more to a blissful marriage than just marrying a man with a vision.

This will interest you, just read on.

I used to have a roommate back then on campus. She was a committed sister, a lover of God, and a lady who really wanted a visionary man.

So, this particular guy showed up in her life. A Christian brother with a great vision.

Each time they discussed, it would always be about the big big visions.

He doesn’t have the time to look at his woman, he doesn’t even talk about their relationship and how to make it better.

It was always about how he would conquer territories and become a great man.

Ask him something about emotional intelligence, it’s not his business. Relate with him about the needs of his woman, it doesn’t make sense to him.

At a point, the lady became frûstrated. She wasn’t understanding the relationship any more. Nothing made sense to the guy if it wasn’t about his big big visions.

Finally, she bróke up with him, and moved on with her life.

Just a few days ago, when I dropped a post about the need to marry a man of vision, a woman reached out to me and told me how she regrètted marrying a man of vision.

The man was all about his big visions, his business, his work. Nothing else mattered to him, even his wife.

You see, in all your marrying, please don’t just focus on his vision. Make sure that you are factored in the vision.

Being visionary is not enough. A man of vision without character or a sense of empathy will make the vision look like a cûrse to you.

Don’t just be attracted by his big visions, make sure he has the capacity to husband his woman and the stamina to father his children.

Beyond his big visions, he needs to be someone who would be present in the marriage, someone who would chase ten thousand with you.

It takes two intentional people to make a marriage work. He shouldn’t just be intentional about fulfilling his big visions, he also needs to be very intentional about seeing his marriage thrive.

A thriving vision without a thriving marriage is an effort in futility. Don’t settle for that..make it work.Invite God to be at the center of every step.

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