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How to know someone is into you.

After reading , you will know whether you are wasting your time or dating yourself.For the past few days now, I have been in counseling sessions with a lot of people, especially ladies treating different relationship issues.One lady chatted me up and complained about her guy.According to her, he does not give her attention.Chatting or calling is a problem. He will be online but won’t chat with her or reply to his messages.And whenever she complains about it, the problem will start.She had an issue with the guy and for 3 weeks this guy didn’t speak with her.She said the guy even told her that it is not every day they are meant to be talking.So I told her what to do and we ended our counseling session.Sadly, a lot of people are in a relationship with those who are not really into them, they are wasting their time, causing them pain, and at the end of the day, they end up hurting.What I intend to do in this article is to show you various signs you will notice when someone is really into you, when someone loves and is interested in you.In the end, you will evaluate your relationship and know the next step forward so you don’t waste your time and nobody wastes your time for you.Let’s dive in… ✅ ATTENTION When someone is into you, you don’t need to beg the person or create drama to get the attention of the person, on the contrary, the person will give you attention. It will come naturally.You give attention to something important to you, to something that interests you, to something that occupies your heart, and to something that attracts your mind. So when someone is not giving you attention, it is a sign the person is not into you.It may be because the person didn’t find you that interesting. When someone is interested in you, you will know and feel it because the attention will be there.✅ TIME When someone is into you, the person will have your time. We have time for things that are important to us. No matter how tight the schedule is, we create time for important things.Simply put, anyone who doesn’t have your time is not into you. Don’t waste your time with such a person. Anyone who doesn’t have your time, you shouldn’t have his or her time either.We have time for everything, so anyone who doesn’t create time to be with you is not into you. Stop begging people to make time for you. If they consider you important, they will have time for you.✅ CARE When someone is into you, he will care for you.There will be signs of care.When someone is into you, they will make efforts to ensure that you are good, safe, okay, comfortable, and all of that, they will call you to know how you’re doing, and how your day is going and they will be concerned about your well-being.In most cases, they will spend their resources to ensure you are good. Someone who is not interested in how you feel is not into you because someone who cares will be interested in your welfare. ✅ COMMUNICATION Communication is the blood of every relationship. It is the backbone and the bedrock of every relationship. Once there’s no communication there’s no relationship.When someone is into you, they will be in regular communication with you, they will call you, they will chat with you, they will text you as the case may be just to hear from you.Hearing the voice of those you love is a delight. When you love someone, when you are interested in a person, when you are into a person, you will also love to hear from the person.So when someone rarely communicates with you, it is a sign the person is not into you. The person will be online but won’t chat with you, even when you send a message, it takes eternity to get a reply. Sometimes they will read but won’t reply to you. It is a sign.✅ GIVING One of the evidences of love is giving. When you love someone, you will give. There can be no love without giving.So when someone rarely gives you things, it may be a sign the person is not into you. When someone is into you, they will give you gifts, money, and even a recharge card as the case may be.The gift doesn’t have to be great. It’s not about the size of the gift that counts but the thought behind the gift. For someone to give you something shows they have been thinking about you. It feels good to know that someone is thinking of you or to get a gift for you.It’s not difficult to know when someone is into you. With these 5 signs, you can easily evaluate your relationship and know where you are standing and the way forward.

HOW TO KNOW SOMEONE IS INTO YOU

After reading this post, you will know whether you are wasting your time or dating yourself.
For the past few days now, I have been in counseling sessions with a lot of people, especially ladies treating different relationship issues.
One lady chatted me up and complained about her guy.
According to her, he does not give her attention.
Chatting or calling is a problem.
He will be online but won’t chat with her or reply to his messages.
And whenever she complains about it, the problem will start.
She had an issue with the guy and for 3 weeks this guy didn’t speak with her.
She said the guy even told her that it is not every day they are meant to be talking.
So I told her what to do and we ended our counseling session.
Sadly, a lot of people are in a relationship with those who are not really into them, they are wasting their time, causing them pain, and at the end of the day, they end up hurting.
What I intend to do in this article is to show you various signs you will notice when someone is really into you, when someone loves and is interested in you.
In the end, you will evaluate your relationship and know the next step forward so you don’t waste your time and nobody wastes your time for you.
Let’s dive in…
✅ ATTENTION
When someone is into you, you don’t need to beg the person or create drama to get the attention of the person, on the contrary, the person will give you attention. It will come naturally.
You give attention to something important to you, to something that interests you, to something that occupies your heart, and to something that attracts your mind.
So when someone is not giving you attention, it is a sign the person is not into you.
It may be because the person didn’t find you that interesting. When someone is interested in you, you will know and feel it because the attention will be there.
✅ TIME
When someone is into you, the person will have your time. We have time for things that are important to us. No matter how tight the schedule is, we create time for important things.
Simply put, anyone who doesn’t have your time is not into you. Don’t waste your time with such a person. Anyone who doesn’t have your time, you shouldn’t have his or her time either.
We have time for everything, so anyone who doesn’t create time to be with you is not into you. Stop begging people to make time for you. If they consider you important, they will have time for you.
✅ CARE
When someone is into you, he will care for you.
There will be signs of care.
When someone is into you, they will make efforts to ensure that you are good, safe, okay, comfortable, and all of that, they will call you to know how you’re doing, and how your day is going and they will be concerned about your well-being.
In most cases, they will spend their resources to ensure you are good. Someone who is not interested in how you feel is not into you because someone who cares will be interested in your welfare.
✅ COMMUNICATION
Communication is the blood of every relationship. It is the backbone and the bedrock of every relationship. Once there’s no communication there’s no relationship.
When someone is into you, they will be in regular communication with you, they will call you, they will chat with you, they will text you as the case may be just to hear from you.
Hearing the voice of those you love is a delight. When you love someone, when you are interested in a person, when you are into a person, you will also love to hear from the person.
So when someone rarely communicates with you, it is a sign the person is not into you. The person will be online but won’t chat with you, even when you send a message, it takes eternity to get a reply. Sometimes they will read but won’t reply to you. It is a sign.
✅ GIVING
One of the evidences of love is giving. When you love someone, you will give. There can be no love without giving.
So when someone rarely gives you things, it may be a sign the person is not into you. When someone is into you, they will give you gifts, money, and even a recharge card as the case may be.
The gift doesn’t have to be great. It’s not about the size of the gift that counts but the thought behind the gift. For someone to give you something shows they have been thinking about you. It feels good to know that someone is thinking of you or to get a gift for you.
It’s not difficult to know when someone is into you. With these 5 signs, you can easily evaluate your relationship and know where you are standing and the way forward.

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