A woman remembers words spoken to her, she takes them to heart whether good or bad, she responds to words.

That’s why she will remember the promise you make, big or small.

That’s why the words “I love you”, “I miss you” and “I am sorry” are so important to her.

That’s why she will cry out of joy or pain just by words spoken to her.

That’s why she values conversations.

That’s why she can get turned on by words alone and prefers being prepared for love making with words.

That’s why as a wife, pillow talks are so important to her after making love or before you two sleep.

That’s why the first word said by her child is such a big deal.

That’s why if you call her by a special name like “Love”, “Darling”, “Sweetheart” it will hurt her to find out you call another woman by the same special name.

That’s why compliments are so important to her, she feels good when her beauty is praised.

That’s why she can fall in love just by words spoken to her.

That’s why it’s important not just what you say but the tone you use while saying it.

That”s why she will analyze a man’s words and try to figure out what he means.

That’s why if you promise her marriage but take off and leave her it will bruise her for she held on to your word.

That’s why the vows made to her on her wedding day are a big deal.

That’s why words can crash her or uplift her.

That’s why one sentence can give her sleepless nights.

That’s why how you end a phone call with her tells alot.

Words carry alot of weight to a woman. She can remember words spoken to her years ago. So gentleman, before you use very intimate words to her make sure you mean them, before you insult her or say something out of anger realize how much you will hurt her, before you choose to keep quiet or silent thinking you don’t need to speak your mind realize how much she needs to hear from you, before you promise her anything make sure you are ready to deliver. She may long to hear you say “I love you” but don’t say it just yet if you don’t mean it and can’t follow through with actions of love, don’t cheapen those special words. Before you let her live through a new day speak love to her, give only genuine compliments. To make whatever you say special, tell it to her alone and not any other woman.

Know the consequences of your words and use your tongue responsibly. Your words to her as a man have the power to inspire her, encourage her, calm her or hurt her, confuse her and stress her.

Use your words to love her, in what you say and the tone of voice you use while saying it.

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