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By : Cantona Joseph|RFA

1. Before you give up on your marriage, try counselling to address the issues. Counselling will help you deal with issues and hear each other

2. When your spouse suggests counselling, don’t take it as an attack. He/she is just looking for solutions

3. Don’t use the words “You are the one who needs counselling” when your spouse suggests you go together. It takes two to find the best solution

4. Counselling is not about finding out who is wrong and who is right between you two, but unlocking the potential of your love as both your needs are met

5. Don’t wait for bad things to happen so that you do counselling. You can go for therapy to nourish your relationship

6. Love is about two people who are willing to learn and treat each other better. Going for counselling doesn’t mean you are foolish, it just means you want to do better

7. A spouse who genuinely cares about saving the marriage or sorting out issues will find it easier to embrace counselling

8. Most people don’t go for counselling despite their marital issues because of ego or they don’t want their bad behaviour to be exposed or addressed

9. Counselling requires two people willing to improve their union

10. If your spouse is going through a personal issue and suggests you go with him/her to counselling for support, go. Get equipped on how to love him/her through the issue

11. Sometimes a couple can deal with a difficult issue such as child loss, job loss, financial issues, sickness, and long-distance differently; counselling can help them understand each other better and form agreement

12. Counselling can save you months and years of pain by addressing the issues early before they ruin your whole marriage. Stop putting it off

13. Counselling might reveal to you how manageable your issues are

14. Counselling can help the health of your marriage. Don’t let it be that your marriage is sick, but you are refusing to see the doctor because of your pride

15. If your spouse refuses to go for therapy with you, you can go alone and find out how best to navigate the unique situation in your marriage. A solution must come from somewhere, perhaps it will come from you

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