Radio Fortune Africa – Cantona Joseph

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Many claim that they are bored in their marriage and so turn outside or get lured outside. Though unfaithfulness has no excuse, how can two grown adults married to each other with sexual needs, spice up their love and sex life?

1. HAVE SECRET CODES

Call each other secret intimate names that only you two know. This adds thrill between you two

2. HAVE NO BOUNDARIES ON WHAT YOU CAN TELL EACH OTHER SEXUALLY

You should express all your sexual thoughts without inhibition to your spouse, not an outsider. No editing your naughtiness

3. DON’T OVER SPIRITUALIZE SEX

Don’t over spiritualize love making and your marriage to the point where making love is viewed as less Godly. True spirituality merges with the physical and emotional needs in love making in marriage. Alot of people feel frustrated because their spouse has a negative view towards sex

4. EMOTIONALLY BE AVAILABLE FOR EACH OTHER

Let your spouse be the person you can lean on, the person you can tell how you truly feel. People have an affair with an outsider because they feel emotionally disconnected from their spouse. Stay emotionally connected to your spouse

5. PLAN FOR LOVE MAKING

In affairs, there is a longing, a build up to sex. In marriage, have moments when you two scheme how you will make love. Plan everything. The time, the romance, the use of petals on the floor or extra sweet actions of love, the purchasing of massage oil. Prepare your spouse by telling him/her what you will do to his/her body. Have moments when making love is not the only agenda

6. GIVE EACH OTHER NO STRESS

The person people tend to have an affair with don’t give stress, instead, they are a stress reliever. Affairs are built on a place to escape to. Don’t be the person your spouse wants to escape from but, be the person your spouse wants to run to

7. GIVE YOUR SEXUAL PARTS A NAME

His penis should be given a name and her vagina too. A name that only the two in the marriage know. Secret names make two people feel they have something special going on

8. TALK MORE THAN DOMESTIC STUFF

Don’t let your marriage be reduced to talking about domestic issues: house rent, bills, children’s report card, bills, chores, responsibilities, in-laws. All these are good but be exciting. Be fun. Talk about life. Joke around. Have a good time. People run to affairs because they are a break from the domestic matters

9. BE PLAYFUL

Gently grab her butt. Stroke her thighs unexpectedly. Rub his penis without warning. Grab her waist. Spank each other. Be suggestive. Tease your spouse. Lady, bend down deliberately so that he sees your nice butt, rub your butt on his penis as you cook

10. FLIRT

Alot of flirting goes on in affairs; whether on the phone or face to face. Flirting should take place in your marriage. Talk sexually to your spouse even when you’re far from each other. As you cook, or do chores; flirt with each other

11. BE SECRETIVE

Don’t tell your friends about your sexual marital experiences. Keeping those experiences a secret heightens their thrill. This is why affairs are often kept a secret

12. GO BEYOND THE MARRIAGE BED

Making love shouldn’t happen in the bedroom only. Get creative. Make love in the shower, on the sofa, kiss up on the wall, make out. Affairs get their allure because of their lack of rules. There is no rule that making love or making out should be done on the bed alone

13. PLAY MUSIC THAT SETS THE MOOD

Play some love songs, slow jams. Have songs that remind you how that intimate moment last night was sweet. Your marriage will come alive

14. TRAVEL

In affairs, people go for road trips and travel, they book hotels. Do that with your spouse. See the world. Make new experiences

15. HAVE A BEDROOM MAKE OVER

The same look in the bedroom will eventually get boring. After a while, change the decor and settings of the bedroom to inspire a fresh flame

16. LOOK THE PART

Don’t get comfortable. Work on looking sexy. Invest in lingerie, stay clean, smell good. Don’t be the same old person to your spouse

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