Radio Fortune Africa -Na Cantona Joseph

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1. Ignoring issues doesn’t solve them, it only prolongs them, complicates them and births new issues

2. What might be an issue to your spouse, might not be an issue to you. Still, address it, be empathetic

3. If you don’t communicate to your spouse that there is an issue, you will build resentment towards your spouse

4. If you become defensive when your spouse presents an issue, it will never be solved. Relax

5. Learn to separate the issue, from your spouse. For example, if the issue is your spouse coming home late or using the phone a lot, that is the issue, but your spouse is still special

6. You two will solve issues better when you hear each other’s perspective. Let your spouse share his/her side as much as you share yours

7. It is because you love each other that the issues hurt. If you didn’t care for each other, you wouldn’t have the power to offend each other

8. Remember, the goal is to solve the issue, not to prove who is right or wrong. Humble yourselves

9. Silent treatment pushes both of you away. If you give your spouse silent treatment, the day you will be ready to talk, your spouse might have given up and now start giving you silent treatment

10. Remember this is marriage, not a high school crush. Get to sit down and talk things out as adults. Maturity will provide wisdom, there is too much at stake

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