Listen Up, Men: You Are Not Her Father, Husband, or ATM

Radio Fortune Africa -Na Cantona Joseph

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Stop letting broke, entitled women drain you of your time, energy, and hard-earned money. Before you even think about getting involved with a broke woman, set the boundaries straight: you’re not her father, husband, financier, or some knight in shining armor sent to fix her financial mess. You are a man, not her solution to poor choices or an empty bank account.

Let’s get something clear: dating is not a charity mission. You’re there to build a connection, not to fund her expensive tastes, rent, or lifestyle. If she can’t afford her nails, fake hair, or latest iPhone, guess what? That’s her problem, not yours. You are not obligated to save her from her financial irresponsibility, and you definitely don’t owe her an upgrade in life.

Entitled women will prey on men who lack the guts to say “no.” They’ll call you stingy or cheap to guilt-trip you into opening your wallet. But let me tell you something—being called stingy is far better than ending up broke and bitter because you allowed yourself to be used. Real men don’t fall for manipulation. They set firm boundaries and enforce them unapologetically.

Ask yourself: does she want you or your wallet? If all she talks about are her financial woes or drops hints about needing help, that’s your red flag. You don’t need to stick around for someone looking for a sponsor, not a partner. If she’s a grown woman, she should act like one—by taking responsibility for her own life.

Think about this lesson from No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover: men who prioritize their own needs and self-respect attract better relationships. You’re there to offer love, not financial aid. If she doesn’t respect that, she’s not worth your time.

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