1. THEIR PERSONAL DREAM

It is your role to help your spouse fulfill their dream. Marriage is not a dream killer, but a dream supporter

2. HOW THEY WANT TO BE TREATED WHEN THEY ARE ANGRY

This will help prevent misunderstandings and conflicts

3. THEIR LOVE LANGUAGE

Is it acts of service, gifts, quality time, words of affirmation or physical touch? This will help you love your spouse the way he/she wants to be loved

4. HOW THEIR CHILHOOD WAS

It will help you know your spouse and your in-laws better and see where your spouse is coming from as you two build where you are going

5. THEIR FAVOURITE SEX POSITION

How will you sex your partner good if you don’t know how they like being served?

6. THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD

Is your spouse getting closer or further from God? Marriage should be a place of fellowship and spiritual nourishment

7. HOW THEIR DAY HAS BEEN

Care enough for your spouse to know each day how they have lived through it. Keep updated

8. THEIR CLOSEST FRIENDS

If there are people important in their lives, be aware of them and find out why. Friends are not your competitors

9. THEIR BIGGEST FEAR IN LIFE

This will guide you on how to reassure your spouse and make him/her feel more at home, fostering trust

10. THE TOPICS THEY STRUGGLE TO TALK ABOUT

Find out his/her sensitive topics and handle your spouse well and with care especially when talking about those topics. This will make your spouse feel safe and boost your emotional intimacy

11. THEIR SEXUAL FANTASIES

Make them come true

12. THEIR PHYSICAL HEALTH STATUS

Be aware if your spouse is healthy or is fighting an illness; if so, show him/her you are there

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