The hardest thing about marriage is guarding against all the wolves that constantly circle your marriage trying to find a way to come between you and your spouce.This world sometime we meet our friends who are unhappy about our progress, when they see a couple that love and cherish each another they are not happy,you will ear marriage doesn’t work now days nothing would bring them joy more than coming between that happy marriage and spreading their unhappiness.
I met a couple who are married for 10 years , 5 of these years were wonderful years.They narrates how they loved each other and cherish each other how they went to social gatherings together to watch some friends performing at certain function.
While there, they met a man and his wife, his name is Peter. Coincidentally, Peter went to school with his wife and all but hadn’t seen each other for some time.
As the night progressed, they made small talk and he invited him and his wife to their house for a visit, of which they agreed for the invite.
When the day approached,his wife prepared alot to receive her visitors,he said his wife whispers our visistors are here,he’s been here since 8:00 am this morning. At that moment, his guts turned when he heard those words because his wife doesn’t wake up until 9:30 am or 10:00 am, which meant to him,why she respected the guest more than him it should be a routine.
He said he knows is wife very well for the last 10 years she doesn’t wake up early she would not even get up for him at 8:00 am, a red flag went up, but he quickly dismissed his thoughts because he trusted his wife. Few weeks later Peter visited again and the same thing occurred, he pulled up and there Peter was, sitting with his wife just as if he owned the place, but this time, he hadn’t been there quite as always they were talking and laughing. This occurred again and to make matters worse, every time Peter would leave, he’d say,” now don’t tell my wife I’ve been here, I’ll get into all kind of trouble. This man narrates.
Naturally him being there without his wife and with obvious intention toward mine put his suspicion on high alert as to his intentions. After a few more strange things happened that pointed toward more than just a casual friendship, He decided to put his foot down for Peter not to return to his house, but the damage was already done to his marriage. Not trusting his wife,he called Peter and asked him what his intentions were, he said, in the sheepish voice,” aw you have to understand, she is just my school mate. I went with your wife to school and just decided to get reacquainted with her,nothing more.”He said his response to him was, I have a problem with that, because the only friend your getting reacquainted with is my wife!! Peter never returned to my house again”he narrates.
Peter was a wolf. He is unemployed and leaches off his wife. He travels around his former friends looking for his next great marriage to split up, but he said he never expected to cross paths with this man. He decided to protect his marriage before it sink under his watch.
You see, an affair begins with a friendship like Peter,how he was attempting to establish with someone’s wife. A wolf is a very subtle hunter. They start out befriending their pray and slowly bring them in closer for the kill. They are sly and have many techniques in their arsenal that could potentially result in an affair and divorce.
You should know the friends your partiner introduces to you and their history, your husband or wife is the most devoted loving trust worthy lady or man but be careful with the friends who are in a mission to destroy your happiness refuse to allow a wolf like Peter to succeed in his mission of splitting your family. I suggest that anyone that has a wolf try and come between them, first put a stop to it, and then definitely seek a marriage councilor. They can equip you with tools that will help you work through any issues that have arisen.May God give you happy marriage.

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