No couple is made up of two people with equal skills.

I know we live in a time of equality, but equality in a relationship doesn’t mean dividing everything down the middle. No couple is made up of two people with equal skills. He has his strengths and you have yours. A great relationship is like a two-piece jigsaw. Together, you not only compliment each other but you make something better than the individual pieces. It’s a sharing experience. Where you fill one of his gaps, he fills one of yours. What does your man need to give you to make your life better?
Needless to say, guys need help in this department. Women have a tendency to want to change a guy, and this is where you can do this figuratively and literally, through a program of education and taking charge. And a guy isn’t going to complain about your involvement. He’s looking for help and he’s going to be grateful for it — and so is the environment.
Laundry:
That got your attention, didn’t it? This isn’t just laundry, but chores in general. Let’s face facts. There are some things that men will never master no matter the training they’re given. For whatever reason, most men aren’t great groomers or habitat cleaners. Ask a single guy how he keeps anything clean and I’m sure you as a female will be quite disturbed. Most guys are environmental health risks. Personally, I used to incorporate a floor-based system of laundry in which different heaps of things were classified as:
Worn once, but can be worn again
Gym only
If that doesn’t go in washer now, it’s going to crack like a china plate.
Ladies, I’m sure you’ve bought underwear with the days of the week printed on them. If guys did the same, they’d be marked with the seasons instead.
Food:
Food has a deep psychological effect on us. What do people do to celebrate an occasion? They eat together. Even Jesus had a blowout meal with his buddies when he knew his time was up. We eat to live. Food makes us happy. Food means we have the energy to live another day. Food is also where we sink our sorrows. Hands up, who has kicked back a pint of ice cream over a bad breakup? And no one likes to eat alone. There’s a reason there are counters in restaurants and diners. It’s a place where the single folk can eat and not be lonely.
It doesn’t matter if a guy knows his way around the kitchen or not, he likes to have a meal cooked for him by a woman. Women are nurturers by nature. They look out for others. A guy’s nurturing tendencies go as far as “Walk it off, son.” It’s very calming to a guy when a woman does something nice for him. Whatever is going wrong in the world, everything can be reset with an act of kindness from his woman — and making a meal for him can be just that act. It reminds him that someone out there is looking out for him. This shouldn’t be viewed as a submissive role. The meal maker holds a position of power. You can make him happy and for that he’ll be forever grateful.

Is it true in a relationship men only want love, attention, food and sex?

Attention means that your partner listens to you, talks to you, spends time with you, etc. Is there anyone in the universe who doesn’t want this from a relationship?

Likewise with sex. Last time I checked, virtually everyone with a healthy sex drive wants sex, and those who have committed relationships want sex from their partners. Men and women included.

So the only “debatable” word here is “food.” Do men want food from their relationships? Well,Don’t women? Don’t women love a guy who can cook dinner and share in the housework?
Is acceptable for men to cook for their partiners.

Food has a deep psychological effect on men,Food makes men happy.Is it true.


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